You have been dating a wonderful guy for a short period of time and all seems to be going well. That is, until your first argument. Let's face it, all couples will have an argument or two and that is nothing to obsess over. Unfortunately there are men out there that turn out to be stalkers.
They can not take no for an answer. They get completely obsessed with you and the fact that they may loose you. Once they get that fear in them they grab hold of you in hopes to keep you.
So how do you tell if you are dating a stalker? There are a few signs that you need to watch out for to be sure that you are safe.
First thing to watch out for is when he starts to show up when you least expect him to.
If you are going out with the girls or even family, he doesn't t trust you and he follows you.
You see him sneaking around outside of your home at night.
He calls you constantly and even hangs up on you.
If you are having a quarrel with him and want some space but he becomes aggressive and desperate.
When he gets angry he destroys your property.
He tries to keep tabs on you with a GPS so he will know where you are at all times.
He manipulates your time so that all you do revolves around him,.
Be cautious and watch for the signs of a stalker. Often time's people ignore the signs until it is too late. Listen to your friends and family. Many times women get their vision clouded where their partner is concerned.
They want to believe the best in him and they tend to not see the warning signs. Don't get caught in a controlling relationship. No one deserves to be treated like a prisoner. You have free will and the option to do as you
want.
A relationship is to be a joint venture where the two of you make the decisions together.
Under no circumstances should you allow any man to take control over you or to threaten you or your family. Remember that you are in control of you and no one can take that away from you.
You need to contact "The national Center for Victim's of Crime" at 1-800-FYI-Call if you feel that you are being stalked by someone. Be sure to keep the lines of communication open with family and friends as they can help you in this time of need.
Do not let him cut your ties with those who are important to you.
According to statistics from the National Center for Victim's of Crime", one in every twelve women will be stalked at some point in their lifetime.
It has also been shown that 87% of stalkers are men and that 81% of the women that are stalked are being stalked by an ex or even a current partner.
